I’m following my intuition; I’m following where the energy calls; I’m waiting for the water to rise instead of carrying my canoe down a dry riverbed. Trouble is, what if there is no spark, no water, no indication of which way to go?
Your friend has just had a death in the family and you’re not sure what to do or say. You have the feeling that they probably want to be left alone and have private time. You worry that if you mention anything about the death, it might provoke more pain.